The Road to Character
The right thing to do when you are in moments of suffering is to stand erect in the suffering. Wait. See what it has to teach you. Understand that your suffering is a task that, if handled correctly, with the help of others, will lead to enlargement, not diminishment.
David Brooks • The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life
The right thing to do when you are in moments of suffering is to stand erect in the suffering. Wait. See what it has to teach you. Understand that your suffering is a task that, if handled correctly, with the help of others, will lead to enlargement, not diminishment.
David Brooks • The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life
“This is compassion,” Abernathy later remarked. “A simple human connection between the one who suffers and one who would heal.”
David Brooks • How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
Suffering calls for a response. None of us can avoid suffering, but we can all choose how we respond to it. And, interestingly, few people respond to suffering by seeking pleasure. Nobody says, I lost my child, therefore I should go out and party. They say, I lost my child, and therefore I am equipped to help others who have lost their child. Peopl
... See moreDavid Brooks • The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life
Suffering calls for a response. None of us can avoid suffering, but we can all choose how we respond to it. And, interestingly, few people respond to suffering by seeking pleasure. Nobody says, I lost my child, therefore I should go out and party. They say, I lost my child, and therefore I am equipped to help others who have lost their child. Peopl
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