The usefulness of this strategy depends on women being able to identify those who might be likely and effective mate poachers and then excluding them (but not others) from their social circles. If a woman indiscriminately distances herself and her partner from potential poachers (i.e., all other women), she is assured of his fidelity but at the

We are entering a time when all zones will be so indefinite, arbitrary, and ambiguous that every environment with sexual potential will be avoided. This will have the effect of putting women into unilateral control of their own Hypergamy. It will be a Sadie Hawkins World – only women will make approaches on men, and only men who match her

This one-sided perspective is promoted by the likes of Dr. Jordan Peterson. The idea is this: In women’s natural benevolence, they will only be attracted to the man who best satisfies their needs for long-term security and parental investment. This idea myopically ignores the Alpha Fucks side of the Hypergamous equation.

Human beings are the apex species on this planet because human males evolved innate instincts to protect, provide for, and parentally invest in their mates and children. As such, women make efforts to attract the highest value mates.

Being married puts a man in a “nothing to lose” perspective. Guys think a wedding ring makes a man more desirable – it doesn’t. If married men are attractive to single women, it’s not due to some fantasy of mate poaching or his vows that make him more attractive as a long-term prospect. It’s because, generally, he’s not actively pursuing women.

A man will be unable to sustain a relationship with a woman above his SMV indefinitely. He is very sexually attracted to them and occasionally lucks out and gets sex with one or two, but he can’t sustain a relationship. He can get sex from women at his SMV level, but only if he goes all-in and offers commitment. He can most easily get sex with

Evolution doesn’t care how babies are born; it only cares that they are born. If ignoring obvious warning signs, and adopting memes that justify ignoring them, leads to reproduction, that’s all that matters. The more a man lacks sexual opportunities, the more likely he will ignore Red Flags in women.

I did everything according to the old set of books. I was supportive, kind, sensitive, generous, uplifting, and empowering to every woman I’d been in a relationship with. I was taught that these personality traits would make me desirable. As I looked back on all of that, I realized I had done so at my expense – at the cost of my potential. Know

That’s the better Beta they hope to create. One who will “Man Up” and is the Alpha (as situations and its use would warrant), but who’s ultimately Beta enough to be subservient to the feminine imperative. They seek a man to be proud of. One whose association reflects their quality, yet who they still have implicit control over.