If the inner critic is a reflection of how you view others, then what happens when you no longer care about one’s status? Well, then you stop using your own place in society to determine your self-worth. You understand the frivolity of it all and see the utter hollowness of using achievement as a barometer for acceptance. You redirect any external ... See more

Status is one of those ugly things that we’ve inherited from our evolutionary ancestors, as the quest for dominance is seen throughout the animal kingdom. We all know this, yet our conditioning has convinced us to believe that it’s a worthy pursuit. It tells us that if you play the game right, you’ll get everything you desire. But of course, what y... See more

The anthropologist Ernest Becker once wrote that we are “gods with anuses.” What he meant was that humans are equipped with godlike imaginations that can compose beautiful music, build towering skylines, and even send rockets into space. But at the same time, the biological container that houses this incredible mind has been inherited from our monk... See more