It’s no wonder research has repeatedly shown that dating app use has a direct correlation to body shame and lower self-esteem.1 Even worse, a study revealed that despite all the technology making us more “accessible” than ever, three out of four Americans struggle with loneliness.

many people treat others they encounter online the same way they would when browsing for a lamp on Amazon: as a disposable commodity judged mostly by appearance. OkCupid founder, Christian Rudder, estimated that photos drive 90% of activity in online dating.

#5 You will be treated much better

It’s been shown that our innate need for human connection is equally as important as our basic need for food, water, and shelter15 and that creating bonds with others can be a powerful antidote to addiction.

Inspiring a man to approach you gives you the luxury of avoiding that gamble yourself; he’s assuming 100% of the downside in that moment, so remember this every time a man engages you.

#1 Competition is minimal

Cluster cues are your instinctive powers to pick up on body language, movements, tonality, and other aspects of your fellow humans. They help you instantly determine the other person's personality, current mood, trustworthiness, and whether or not they might pose a threat to you in that moment. That evaluation process all takes place in the blink o

#5 Anti-Social Media

Approachability is creating a safe space for others to engage with you by removing barriers and lowering their perceived risk of rejection.