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The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake
When hyper-individualism kicked into gear in the 1960s, people experimented with new ways of living that embraced individualistic values. Today we are crawling out from the wreckage of that hyper-individualism—which left many families detached and unsupported—and people are experimenting with more connected ways of living, with new shapes and... See more
David Brooks • The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake
In some corners of the Internet there’s a fascination with traditionalism, and criticism of the ways the openness and optionality of modernity have left people feeling lost. I’ve always felt like, look, I could never be a traditionalist, because I don’t want to give birth to five kids without anesthesia and spend half of my day cleaning up around... See more
David Brooks • The Relationalist Manifesto
For the privileged, this sort of works. The arrangement enables the affluent to dedicate more hours to work and email, unencumbered by family commitments. They can afford to hire people who will do the work that extended family used to do. But a lingering sadness lurks, an awareness that life is emotionally vacant when family and close friends... See more
David Brooks • The Nuclear Family Was a Mistake
as Sarah K Peck highlights in her piece:
“The nuclear family – the small unit of just a few humans – is not enough. It’s not working for most of us. It’s up to us to reach out, meet as many people as possible, and build our extended families.” Quoting Kurt Vonnegut: “Marriage is collapsing because our families are too small. A man cannot be a whole... See more
“The nuclear family – the small unit of just a few humans – is not enough. It’s not working for most of us. It’s up to us to reach out, meet as many people as possible, and build our extended families.” Quoting Kurt Vonnegut: “Marriage is collapsing because our families are too small. A man cannot be a whole... See more