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The New Diary
all the things she observed that made her genuinely happy.
Tristine Rainer • The New Diary
Among the advantages most frequently mentioned are: A healthful release for feelings and tensions ... a place to advise yourself, clarify goals, and make decisions ... a way to nourish yourself with friendship and self-acceptance ... a nonthreatening place to work out relationships with others and to develop your capacity for intimacy... a path to
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Anger and Fear
Tristine Rainer • The New Diary
Reflection often follows a cathartic entry, after an emotion has spent itself and the diarist is ready to look at the situation more objectively.
Tristine Rainer • The New Diary
Cathartic writing may not represent reality at all. It uses exaggerations and distortions because realistic writing cannot contain the amount of emotion behind the words.
Tristine Rainer • The New Diary
Unsent Letters
Tristine Rainer • The New Diary
Write quickly with no preconceived subject, so quickly that you retain nothing and are not tempted to reread.
Tristine Rainer • The New Diary
She concluded her diary writing session with the self-posed question: “What can I do to stop this futile pattern?” and made another list, this time of future guidelines for herself. She further asked herself, as if she were her own therapist, which of the items she could act on immediately. Within one writing session the writer was able to move her
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psychiatrists and psychologists recognize journaling as a preferred treatment for trauma,