You don’t have to wear a top hat right out of the chute, but as my friends’ example suggests, try wearing at least one item of clothing curious looking enough to get people’s attention.

it’s important that the frame you convey in those assumptions is one where she wants you and is chasing after you, whereas you are the one with higher value, you are the one who decides if you want to continue with her, and you are screening her to make sure she qualifies herself to you. If she is trying to embed DHV spikes into her stories, she is

This reason is exactly why so many phone numbers are flakes—not enough comfort. Thus it’s important to have fun, natural conversations with girls, using wide rapport and multiple conversational threads. When she looks back on that conversation, she should be thinking about how much she enjoyed talking with you and looks forward to doing so again.

Examples of DHVs: Preselection from other women Appearing to be a leader of men Being supporter and protector of those you love Being nonneedy Being unaffected Social intelligence Negging her (this IOD is a DHV also) Having a strong frame Having interesting knowledge Emotional stimulation Being socially “in demand”—other people are seeking your

In order for you to be permitted the audience of a beautiful woman to attempt to attract her, you must first disqualify yourself from being considered a potential suitor by her. If you don’t do that, she will assume by your approach alone that you’re after her. And if you’re after her, she knows that you perceive her as having high value.

a lot of guys put women through the same thing: thirty seconds of boring talk and then hitting on the girl by asking for her number. Hot women are ultrasensitive to this—they’ve been through it a slew of times. So when you do attempt to construct a time bridge, make it natural. Have a reason to see each other again and play solid game.

Nonsexual intimate kissing is a welcomed comfort-stage action. In fact, if you wait too long to kiss her, she will at some point become uninterested and you will lose the opportunity to kiss her in the future. Generally, this type of “comfort kissing” lasts less than thirty seconds and does not include tongue. Kissing, on the one hand, expresses

Questions to Spark Investment “What’s your favorite color?” “What did you think of high school?” “What did you eat for dinner last night?” “Have you ever been to the hospital emergency room?” “How old where you when you first got drunk?” “Did you and your siblings keep secrets?” “Ever had a very rough breakup?” “What’s your favorite food, vacation,

I recommend that you create a routine stack of canned material that you can practice in the field when you are starting out; that is, an opener, a few routines, and so on. Although certain stock routines and even powerful, field-tested gambits are traded online and are available in books, in the longer term you must develop your own material.