The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed

it’s not enough for her to be attracted to you. She must become invested in her interaction with you before parting. The more invested she is in her interaction with you, the more motivated she will be to get a return on that investment.

Instead of only trying to give her “good” emotions while avoiding “bad” ones, stimulate her with a range of feelings including curiosity, fascination, connection, indignation, validation, laughter, embarrassment, happiness, sadness, and fear of value loss. The more she is stimulated, the more compelling the experience will be for her.

The bait—hook—reel—release metaphor perfectly matches the A3 process described in this chapter, whether applied to screening, hoops, kino escalation, or compliance testing. Here are some examples: Bait—challenge her Hook—she DHVs for you Reel—give her an SOI Release—false disqualifier Bait—give her a compliance test Hook—FAILURE; she defies Release

you if your relations with women have been hindered by your perception, true or not, that you’re physically unattractive. In fact, you have less to worry about than the geek, because the “attraction circuits” of women are calibrated to find a man attractive not measured primarily by handsomeness or physique but rather by social value. It’s not as m

Questions to Spark Investment “What’s your favorite color?” “What did you think of high school?” “What did you eat for dinner last night?” “Have you ever been to the hospital emergency room?” “How old where you when you first got drunk?” “Did you and your siblings keep secrets?” “Ever had a very rough breakup?” “What’s your favorite food, vacation,

You are a biological machine. Your motives in this life are simple but not simplistic: to live and love.

Within three seconds of spotting a woman you are attracted to, you must open her set. The approach must be reactionary, and this is what the Venusian artist trains for. Decide now to train for this, and internalize the Three-Second Rule. Just walk right up to the set of people that you see and open them before your approach anxiety exceeds your des

As kissing prematurely turns to foreplay, it’s time to push her off of you. When doing so, let her know that it’s neither the right time nor the right place to be getting too hot and heavy. Agreeably, such self-restraint is very tough, and it is at this point that many men fail. To help avoid this pitfall, ask yourself this one very serious questio

If your frame is strong enough, you can get away with anything. This concept underpins every piece of advice in this book. If you have the right frame and it is strong enough, you can break every rule and literally anything will work. Your approach might be wrong technically, but she will still respond.