The Messy Middle: Finding Your Way Through the Hardest and Most Crucial Part of Any Bold Venture
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The Messy Middle: Finding Your Way Through the Hardest and Most Crucial Part of Any Bold Venture
On an interview for the Song Exploder podcast series, where artists unpack the creation of one of their songs, Weezer front man Rivers Cuomo described the creative process behind the song “Summer Elaine and Drunk Dori,” for which he wrote the original draft of the lyrics and score. I was struck by the handoff he described, in which he let his bandm
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When negotiating a deal, I’ve always aspired to be fair. It’s simple: I have a discussion up front with my counterpart in which I make the case that, philosophically, I am interested in an outcome that sets us up to succeed, and I therefore want to reach the fairest deal for both parties. I explain that I want to avoid any possibility of regret on
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Society has a grand immune system designed to suppress new ideas. To keep the water running and sustain life’s other necessities, society’s natural resistance to ingenuity surfaces in the form of doubt, cynicism, and pressure to conform. It takes tremendous endurance to survive such resistance.
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