Being in a one-sided relationship means we don’t have to be truly vulnerable with anyone, and we don’t run the risk of being laughed at or misunderstood. We can securely play our role of constant listener, the person who always understands and never judges, and we know that the other person will almost always approve of us, as long as we don’t

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at the core, every INFJ is a growth-oriented individual.

INFJ and INFP multipotentialites contain a light that shines so bright and a life force so magnetic and attractive to others, we will never be at a loss for finding new relationships.

When we attempt to use that same organizational talent to channel our internal creative energy in a linear way, it gets us nowhere. Then we end up creatively frustrated.

But part of growing into ourselves as INFJs is accepting that others are strong in areas where we may be weak. It’s being humble enough to ask for help when we need it, and also realizing there may solutions available that we’re unable to see before someone else points them out to us.

INFJs have a tendency toward arrogance.

The INFJ’s auxiliary function is extraverted feeling, one of the main reasons we are so brilliant at ferreting out and addressing the emotions of others. However, introverted feeling is one of our shadow functions, which means that sometimes we’re not so hot at recognizing and identifying our own emotions, or dealing with them. In addition to this,

This is why the unique makeup of INFJs and INFPs is so valuable. Because we have this very weird mix of somehow being immune to entraining with large collectives (like corporations), while at the same time easily entraining with just one other individual (like a reader), anything we put out into the world with a positive message has the potential