INFJ and INFP multipotentialites contain a light that shines so bright and a life force so magnetic and attractive to others, we will never be at a loss for finding new relationships.

This is why the unique makeup of INFJs and INFPs is so valuable. Because we have this very weird mix of somehow being immune to entraining with large collectives (like corporations), while at the same time easily entraining with just one other individual (like a reader), anything we put out into the world with a positive message has the potential t

Also, in my opinion, much of our obsessive planning is actually driven by anxiety at the root, rather than our natural talent for forecasting.

When we attempt to use that same organizational talent to channel our internal creative energy in a linear way, it gets us nowhere. Then we end up creatively frustrated.

at the core, every INFJ is a growth-oriented individual.

the person an INFJ needs most is that realistic, thinking, sensor-type of individual who can pull us back down to earth.

INFJs have a tendency toward arrogance.

If we feel that we shouldn’t have a bazillion different interests, and that we should pursue only one narrow line of thought or inquiry in our lives, then we will always be slaves to this should and shouldn’t.

So, it’s very common to see a lot of INFJs who have a five-year plan, know exactly where they want to go in their career, are having lunch in two weeks with a friend and have already picked the restaurant, etc., and who use those details and deadlines as a way to feel in control.