back a really strong team so I can live more of my life. I’ve struggled to find really crackerjack distributors—they are critical to going from a $1-million-dollar company to my vision, which is $10 million within the next two years. So my challenge is identifying the winners—the right people to get on board. And if you need widgets, you can find u

leads, it’s there for a divine reason.

I learned what it meant to pick my battles, and I couldn’t bear to battle with my instincts anymore.

He puts it this way: “A strength is what you do that makes you feel strengthened.” Boom. So it’s not necessarily what you’re good at or what you’re capable of—it’s what feels amazing when you do it. Ergo, a weakness is the stuff you do that makes you feel weakened. Deceptively simple. Revolutionary.

Be done with feeling guilty for wanting to feel the way you want to feel. Follow your desired emotion. Don’t analyze it too deeply. Just let it roll and rumble a bit. It may be there to humble you, expand you, heal, surprise, or reinvent you. Anywhere it

If you round out your edges, you lose your edge.

But when you know deep down, when you’re clear as quartz in sunlight, why sully that lucidity with a complicated justification?

First, get clear on how you want to feel. Then, do stuff that makes you feel that way.

But we’ll charm the people who relate to us. And you know what that is? That’s love.