Third, it gave my tablemates the chance to share their own experiences.

Courage is required of anyone asking for a date. When asked: Friday or Saturday night? or What are you up for—a movie or some dancing? please do not answer with: Whatever. A Whatever response indicates one of two things, neither one of them positive: You either don’t care about this person or the conversation, or you don’t know what you want. A che

Greet people warmly, make eye contact, and smile. Be the first to say hello. Be careful, you might be viewed as a snob if you are not the first to say hello.

heart. He or she can be seen stalking casual conversations and pulling people aside for interrogation.

never presume your conversation partner has a nickname.

You’ll become skilled at small talk the same way you’ve improved in other activities—practice. It’s not difficult—high school geometry was much harder than this. All you need to do is practice. Little by little, you’ll give your conversation partner plenty to talk about!

First, I told something about myself,

I got your name.

Don’t hesitate to ask friends to keep you in mind. And never dismiss someone because they are not your type. This person could become your friend and introduce you to your future partner.