the essence of love is... annoyance?

One key to a good relationship is to simply accept all the things that annoy you about the other person. Acknowledge them, laugh about them, surrender to them, and once you do, it's so much easier to really love them. But until then, their quirks will just irritate you.

to love someone is to attend a thousand births of the people they’re becoming

it can take just a minute or five to send a friend a text or a voice memo that will mean the world to them, that will store ur love in their heart for a long, long time

the best relationships come out of creating something together