The Black Girl's Guide To Being Blissfully Feminine

Men have an actual need to provide and be seen as competent within the group of men he associates with. By helping him with his role, it actually suppresses his instincts to take care of you. Taking care of a man, splitting bills, and buying things for him (on a regular basis) emasculates him. It also makes you look like less of a woman in his eyes

Men are genetically hardwired to work, provide, protect, and procreate, and when you have a man, you should let him do just that.

Men actually NEED touch accompanied by verbal praise or appreciation to fully receive the appreciation (it’s a subconscious, psychological thing). Men are hardwired to PROTECT, PROVIDE, and PROCREATE. They want to make us happy, and because of their desire to please us, they live for validation in the form of appreciation.

If you are single, when in the dating phase it should be negotiated that your money will not be used for household bills. Expressing your desire and expectation to be provided for will not be a turn-off for a healthy, masculine man.