“We are both very autonomous people, and his polyamory gives me a feeling of freedom. Plus, it makes my lover happy, and I’d much rather have a happy, fulfilled lover than a frustrated, resentful one.”

The point of marriage is not to create a quick commonality by tearing down all boundaries; on the contrary, a good marriage is one in which each partner appoints the other to be the guardian of his solitude, and thus they show each other the greatest possible trust. A merging of two people is an impossibility, and where it seems to exist, it is a