
The Art of Loving

It takes faith to bring up a child; it takes faith to fall asleep; it takes faith to begin any work.
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
When he does not work, he wants to be lazy, to slouch or, to use a nicer word, to “relax.” This very wish for laziness is largely a reaction against the routinization of life.
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
fairness ethics.
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
Giving is more joyous than receiving, not because it is a deprivation, but because in the act of giving lies the expression of my aliveness.
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
“You know the heart of the stranger,” says the Old Testament, “for you were strangers in the land of Egypt; … therefore love the stranger!”[11]
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
Talmudic statement: “Whosoever saves a single life is as if he had saved the whole world; whosoever destroys a single life is as if he had destroyed the whole world.” Equality
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
There is one way, a desperate one, to know the secret: it is that of complete power over another person; the power which makes him do what we want, feel what we want, think what we want; which transforms him into a thing, our thing, our possession.
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
her). The awareness of human separation, without reunion by love—is the source of shame. It is at the same time the source of guilt and anxiety.
Erich Fromm • The Art of Loving
The result is the Don Juan, who needs to prove his male prowess in sex because he is unsure of his masculinity in a characterological sense.