the relationship dilemmas we face are often not problems to solve, but paradoxes to manage. Our biggest relationship questions often come with the most complicated answers. This can create ambivalence, and ambivalence can be uncomfortable. Perhaps it’s a cliche, but it’s this uncomfortable state where so much of our growth happens, both... See more

And across my life of conversation, I have learned that wisdom and wholeness emerge in moments precisely like ours, though ours is writ large, where human beings have to hold seemingly opposing realities in a creative tension and interplay, power and frailty, birth and death, pain and hope, mystery and conviction, brokenness and beauty, calm and... See more