Shifting inner stances is done by choice and choice alone.

and good feelings will no longer be an issue for you.

CHAPTER 22 PRODUCTIVITY VERSUS BUSYNESS

“What is occurring that tells you that?” Because I want to always be certain we are working with reality and not someone’s fearful belief system. Why base your life on avoiding fear and feeling safe?

CHAPTER 23 COMMITMENT VERSUS TRYING

Commitment = A created stance in which you know what you will do (or not do) regardless of what happens or what doesn’t happen.

ANSWER: We do it out of habit. When you do something long enough, it begins to feel natural and normal. Dysfunction becomes the comfortable norm.

“What had you call me?” because we can beat around the bush forever, but you

Many times people engage in surface actions to look good to others and to show that they are somehow committed… but what they are really committed to is staying comfortable.