Special Edition: 18 Life-Learnings from 18 Years of The Marginalian

18. How you love, how you give, and how you suffer is just about the sum of who you are. Everything in life is a subset of one or a combinatorial function of all three. Seek people who love and give generously, who have the strength to suffer without causing damage. (Only strong people are safe people, the measure of strength being not the absence ... See more

~15 years of inner work and the key learning seems to be, ‘find a way to soften and relax’