I hadn’t overcome anger by denying its existence. I just channeled my anger in a different direction. Rather than yelling, I walled up and became silent. I gave Jen the silent treatment, and she knew I was angry and she felt the effects of my anger, but I couldn’t overcome anger until I admitted it.

Fourth, overcoming your fears will involve redemptive suffering. When you are cultivating the presence of Jesus, when you intentionally go to Him in your time of trouble, let Him comfort you. You will be tempted during these times to go to a sin pattern that brings you comfort—like lust, fantasy, eating, or drinking. Go to Jesus instead. Feel the

Grieve Your Hurts and Losses In order to get through the process of forgiveness, it helps to grieve the hurts and losses you have suffered.

Curses Create Ground Finally, curses can give ground to demonic spirits. There are three types of curses. First, there are religious curses.

can’t heal your internal hurts or free you from your external baggage. Only God can heal the soul.

We have to walk in the light with God and others if we are going to get free.

Choose Forgiveness Forgiveness is an act of the will that we must choose. Forgiveness is a gift offered by the offended party. It is never deserved or earned. Therefore, you can forgive someone unilaterally; they don’t need to apologize.

Again, the healthy choice is to grieve your disappointments so you can dislodge those displaced passions of bitterness and recover your healthy passions for your God-given dreams.

THE PROCESS OF DELIVERANCE I always encourage people when they start a deliverance to use a system.