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The three most common Pleasure Thieves are stress, trauma, and shame. I call them STS for short.

Desire is simply the emotion of wanting something, while arousal is the physical manifestation of mental or emotional stimulation.

the five Sex IQ pillars: Embodiment, Health, Collaboration, Self-Knowledge, and Self-Acceptance.

EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing) was crucial to understanding and releasing the severity of my trauma. EMDR allows us to reprocess memories that were stored in the brain in ways that cause distress. It rewires your brain to react differently to a similar or triggering event in the future.

Physical touch, affection, bonding, dirty talking, or romance can trigger their desire.