But if you just can’t get over someone’s allegiance to Taylor Swift or Burning Man, Boateng says, “It could be a sign that how this person operates in the world is just not intriguing to [you]. It's not problematic or bad. It's just not uniquely intriguing to you.” And here, you should definitely trust your taste.

As someone who’s inherently driven to develop an individual perspective on art and style, it can be humbling to find yourself blindly, emoji-heart-eyes feeling someone despite their terrible, rounded hemline shirt.