
Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond

Remember that another person’s journey is not your journey, even if they are a mate or romantic partner.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
sometimes this reason for engaging in an altered state needs additional negotiation and finesse. Unless all involved are there for that reason, misunderstandings and hard feelings can arise.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
Because of projection, many of us have the habit of taking on other people’s journeys and experiences as our own journey. It is not about you. Someone else’s journey is not your journey.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
likes, dislikes and other thoughts on the activities to be involved,
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
When energy gets whipped up, skills can sometimes can waver, which means you need to be at the top of your game (or at least aware of the level of your game) before there is the possibility of it faltering.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
become fully committed to receiving or giving.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
into heaven or descend into the underworld.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
For others, our libido is the only thing that keeps us journeying into our spirit. If you tend to follow the Path of the Flesh, this might be especially true for you.
Lee Harrington • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond
For those for whom dancing does not call, the simple act of rocking back and forth can be used to induce an altered state of consciousness.