👫 Relationships Are Challenging + a Lot of Work - @Visakanv's Blog

In a long-term relationship, if you can’t trust your partner… what are you doing? You’re very possibly wasting your time. Or your standards are so low that you’re willing to tolerate an untrustworthy partner because you’re scared of being alone.

The “killer” signs:

Contempt. Doesn’t matter if you’re laughing as you jokingly put each other down. One day it won’t be funny.

Dismissiveness. “Ugh, she’s always like that”

Indifference. “nah it’s nbd whatever”

One partner constantly apologizing for the other. This is not sustainable.

This is bad form – when the hard times hit, they’ll buckle.

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