relationship puzzles
The real thing people should be actively looking for is strong emotional connection, as in: to what degree can I share who I am with this person, do they get it , how interested are they in who I am, my feelings and thoughts, can we accommodate each other’s preferences, are we good at talking. Once I asked a very happy couple how they knew they... See more
the agony of eros: dating
Love laced with security is often low on courage. It carries an innate paradox. People cling to the version of their counterpart they first fell for, often unconsciously dismissing further becoming, creating a layer of delusion that binds them together. This illusion provides "stability", yet the very constructs that enable men and women to see... See more
Laurenx.com
So maybe the question isn’t, “Do they love me?” That’s the question that keeps ppl starving for crumbs. The real question is, “Do we have the tools to sustain love in a way that makes us both more alive?”
Because love isn’t about finding “the one.” That’s a myth that keeps you searching. Love is about becoming the one,... See more
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