To me, this reclamation means being myself with no disclaimers or excuses. It means not needing permission to say what’s important or to ask for guidelines around how to say it. My reclamation is becoming aware that my voice has power and meaning, and is the only way I will create my desired life for me, and those around me.”

Teaching thousands and thousands of women over the last 20 years, I’ve discovered that one of the main reasons relationships break down is that the woman is disappointed in her partner. Her romantic expectations have not been met. What does she do when she realizes this? Does she graciously and generously teach her man how to please her? Does she l

A woman who is not turned on can feel swallowed or overwhelmed by her strong emotions. As she turns on, she begins to connect with her emotional instrument such that she is not victimized by her strong feelings but rather welcomes them as an aspect of her emotional range and power. Orgasm turns her on to her ability to know herself, her highest pow

So my SWA students and I began experimenting. We tried dabbing pussy juice behind the ears when going to a job interview, with incredible results. A few dots of PJ perfume before a date? It was like crack cocaine to a guy. When we wanted to feel powerful at an audition or a work presentation, we tried going panty-free. If we wanted to make ourselve

At the time I was reading The Game of Life and How to Play It by Florence Scovel Shinn. This small book, written almost 100 years ago, is all about how thoughts become things.

In same-sex relationships, these roles are often swapped back and forth, but they are often swapped in hetero relationships as well. Sometimes a hetero woman will enjoy slipping into her masculine, and a hetero man will enjoy inhabiting his feminine.

Born into the Patriarchal World Culture, we women don’t realize we are only partially living the lives we were destined for. We have been indoctrinated not to recognize—and thus, not to call forth—the native power that is our birthright. It is only when a woman stands fiercely for another human being’s freedom that she experiences the fullness of h

When a woman gets turned on, she tunes in to her own magnificence, into her sense of deserving all that is wonderful in this life. She becomes radiant, the way a woman is supposed to be.

When we do not know our physiology, and are not surrounded by women who know theirs, we can’t connect with this innate truth that we are wired for continual creation and re-creation, no matter what. We never have to lose our sense of connection to our own power and divinity, because our radiance is innate. But we don’t know it’s innate, because we’