
Point Man

Many fathers have preconceived ideas of how their sons should act and what they should be interested in. But let me say this again: God made your son in His image, not yours.
Steve Farrar • Point Man
Proverbs 5 shows us that a father is to talk straight with his son about the boundaries God has put around His gift of sex. Notice that the father doesn’t mince any words. He attempts to prepare his son for what might occur long before it happens. This is precisely what we are to do as leaders of our homes.
Steve Farrar • Point Man
The short answer is that we do not run and we do not hide. We stay at our posts and do not abandon them. This doesn’t mean that the Lord couldn’t lead a husband and wife to move their family to another state. Just make sure your decision is made out of faith and not fear.
Steve Farrar • Point Man
Who else is going to tell your children about Jesus Christ? You hope your church will do this. But that’s not enough. You are the go-to guy on your family mission field. It’s up to you to open your Bible in your home. It’s up to you to draw attention to God’s words at applicable moments. It’s up to you to lead your family in prayer—to pray with you
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The most important thing for Christian parents to communicate to their children about this issue is that God created each of us either male or female, as it says in Genesis 1:27…. This short but profound verse implies several things. 1) Our “maleness” and “femaleness” is an essential part of our humanity as God created us; 2) It is good to be male,
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In the past ten years, the enemy has led a shock-and-awe campaign the likes of which you and I never could have imagined just a few years earlier. Christian men have been caught off guard. His strategy has been to create a tectonic shift in our cultural belief system about human sexuality. He has harnessed our media and entertainment, educational s
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The husband has been given authority in the home by God, just as the quarterback has it in the huddle and the captain has it in the cockpit. No question: male authority in the home is not a popular idea anymore. Maybe that’s why the American family is in such trouble?
Steve Farrar • Point Man
Here’s the problem. Since 2007, I have carried a live grenade with me all the time. A smartphone or tablet is a spiritual grenade, with the potential to do great damage. You absolutely have to get control of it along with all your other tech devices.
Steve Farrar • Point Man
Extreme, you say? A little over the top, maybe? You bet. And that’s exactly what Jesus was telling us to do. I can promise you this: if we don’t get extreme with the temptation of our eyes, then it will get extreme with us.