‘People feel they don’t owe anyone anything’: the rise in ‘flaking’ out of social plans
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‘People feel they don’t owe anyone anything’: the rise in ‘flaking’ out of social plans
There’s clearly something in the air because The Atlantic just published Derek Thompson’s cover story on “the anti-social century,” which explores why Americans are spending more time than ever alone. And last week The Guardian published a piece about the rise in flakiness, with one person interviewed saying, “I have adjusted my mindset so I almost... See more
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