Listen to your partner without criticism or judgment.

as well as my guru, my emotional crying towel, and my First Personal National Bank.”

The majority of swingers consider themselves emotionally monogamous and sexually nonmonogamous.

Self-awareness

Our primary rule is not “anything goes,” it’s “everything is negotiable.”

One of the reasons relationships fail is because we do have unrealistic expectations going into them, fueled by myths about “the one” true love who’s going to be our “everything.” Polyamorous people recognize this fallacy and respect each person’s capabilities and limits when it comes to what they can give. Instead of attempting to change someone,

In my book, what’s right is following your heart and creating honest, ethical relationships that work for you.

And make no mistake: relationships take lots of work.

life is in the details.