Love Yourself and Let the Other Person Have It Your Way

Your attitude is, you want the other person to have what the other person wants.

Acceptance is another good definition of love. When you love people, you accept them they way they are.

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Think of somebody you're disapproving of. Now when you're disapproving of others, you're causing yourself lots of negativity. See if you can figure out how to have a relationship with somebody you're not getting along with. Ask your friend your mind if it knows how to do it. It doesn't know. If it knew you would already be getting along with that p

The First Breakthrough ActionLet go of your non-love feelings. Pay attention to what you're saying, thinking and doing. Watch all the time. Stay awake to what's happening. Be on the lookout all the time. When you see some non-love thought, you stop it. When you see some non-love feeling, you stop it. When you see you're taking some non-love action,

You realize your lovingness when you let go of the non-loving feelings. How do you do that? It is very simple. It's just a decision. Can you let go of the non-loving feelings? Yes, you can. Let go of the non-loving feelings and discover you've been all loving all along.

"Hmmm...," I thought to myself, "What's this guy doing in my life?" What's he here to teach me?I decided to let go of disapproving of him and give him approval.

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Give yourself approval. Loving yourself is the answer. It transforms any person or situation.

That kind of so-called love will get you in trouble. People will drain you because you're looking for something in return. You're looking to put yourself up in the process and therefore they'll pull you down.