You can’t wait until everyone understands you and gives you their permission and blessing to go live your life how you want.  You don’t need to feel guilty about moving on, letting go, losing their dumb status games, and going after your own life goals.  It is ok if you’re not properly calibrated to humanity and meet some people who try to take

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Because you’re scared of letting the world see you for who you truly are. Perfectionism is the shield you hide behind, but it’s vulnerability that permeates the hearts of people in your life. Its softness, not rigor, that lets you experience the gift that is being alive.

Let’s say you are perceived in all the ways you want. What is there to gain?

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Trying to avoid rejection is like trying to avoid sunlight. Rejection is painful but it also helps you to grow. It can burn you but it’s everywhere. It feels good to show your face and be seen, once you accept that we’re all afraid and we will all get burned over and over again. It feels good to be brave and accept that you aren’t in control at all... See more