show the inside of your head in public, so people can see if they would like to live in there.

What I’m saying is this:

1. You are born with this weird interiority that no one else can see.


2. You can’t see it either at first. But if you run enough experiments you get a sense of how that inner space behaves. In particular, you can figure out which types of people can fuse with your interiority and expand it.


3. You will not be able to explain how this

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When you talk about people you like, or rather when you talk about that thing that happens between you —you have to transform a very complex impression into a string of words. Some relationships can easily be compressed into a compelling string of words. This is usually because they conform to some sort of trope of how romance should look. In my... See more