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Looking for Alice
The type of person I’m assuming we’re looking for here is 1) someone that you will find fascinating to talk to after you’ve talked for 20,000 hours, 2) you feel comfortable with them talking through the hardest and most painful decisions you will face in your life, and 3) the conversation is wildly generative for both of you, in that it brings you ... See more
Henrik Karlsson • Looking for Alice
What they actually want to know is how to bring a feminine partner into their world who will want to reveal all of herself, who won’t hold back, who will offer the range of Feminine experience—her fierce feedback, her darkest fantasies, her most tender fears, and her unwavering devotion. How can they attract someone like that? Someone to bring them
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Aloneness, Belonging, and the Paradox of Vulnerability, in Love and Creative Work
Maria Popovathemarginalian.org

These are questions I made for a friend to ask her love interest, but they were further along and she wanted to understand how she could make him feel loved.
Questions you can ask:
- What are some examples of moments in your life where you felt the most loved, and why? Or deeply held? Or deeply safe? (It's better to ask for concrete examples from the
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