Is Your Partner Keeping Score in Your Relationship?
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Is Your Partner Keeping Score in Your Relationship?
Stay in the present and focus on what is happening between them right now. Look at the circle of criticism that spins both of them around. There is no true “start” to a circle. Consider the circle, the dance, as their enemy and the consequences of not breaking the circle.
Sue Johnson • Hold Me Tight: Your Guide to the Most Successful Approach to Building Loving Relationships
This is definitely a red flag in relationships and needs to be addressed. Do not fall for the bate of arguing about word choice, exact definitions and fact checking. Instead bring light to this being a deflection from the original topic. The only way this dynamic can be healed and repaired is if the person with unhealed judgment wounds becomes... See more
theyogacoupleinstagram.comIf you find yourself keeping score about some issue with your spouse, that suggests it’s an area of tension in your marriage.