I'm Not for Everyone. Neither Are You.

Think about whom it is that you can fall in love with. If your choice is truly impossible (a movie star, some person you do not even know, a storybook character, etc.) sit down and think about it. When your choice is the impossible dream then you are at fault. Keep your eyes open. Someone out there is looking for you.

I don’t mind losing battles as long as I win the war.

The only thing the Roshi ever said to me for guidance was, “Don’t be so sure that what you want is what you should have.”

Navy blue is always better than brown. This is your eternal fashion tip. You will always look better in navy blue than brown. With white around the face. Don’t ask me why. I have observed this thousands of times. This does not translate to lighter tones in warmer weather. Beige is better than light blue. Again, don’t ask me why. This is just the ob

A bad review is just one person’s opinion.

Trite but true: If you can pay for the solution, you haven’t got a problem.

Elegance is the ability to present yourself to the world stripped down to the real you. Without subterfuge. When you say no, you are refusing to be anything other than who you are, or to look or seem any way other than your authentic being. You say no to pretending you are someone other than who you are.

“And this is where you say, ‘Oh, really?’”

Never call anyone before 10:30 in the morning. Glamour is impossible before eleven, Glamour is impossible before eleven. I repeat, glamour is impossible before eleven.