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How to Unf*ck Your Life
The stage you are in determines much of what you notice in reality and the opportunities available to you.
And the higher stages you reach, the more you can tap into the stages beneath, meaning you have both the ability and wisdom to spot opportunities for varied versions of success and achieve them with grace as you move up the spiral.
The question
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The self.
The strange loop of us thinking about our own consciousness in relation to others.
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The purpose of education, at this point, is awareness.
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that human value systems or worldviews (which influence how we interpret the world and make decisions… in other words, our operating system for reality) evolves through stages in an upward spiral.
These stages are the structure of how we think.
Each of us as individuals move up the spiral as we age and develop ourselves.
But this doesn’t only apply to
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when you understand what stage you’re in and the exact “conditions” you need to make progress, what seems impossible now becomes inevitable.
Your mind literally reconstructs how it processes reality.
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aperspectival madness occurs when individuals or societies recognize the validity of multiple perspectives (which is good), but then fall into a relativistic trap where they cannot or will not integrate these perspectives or make value judgments between them (which is problematic).
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I can give you examples and processes, but if you don’t have the ability to understand where you are and who you are, those won’t serve you much.
The path will be confusing.
It’s not supposed to make sense just yet.
When you’re doing something new, you aren’t supposed to be anything other than lost because you’re flailing in the middle of the ocean
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These are the 4 “phases” to expect as you move from one stage to another:
• Alpha – Life is good and normal. There is order.
• Beta – Doubts arise as you enter a new phase. Doing the same thing only makes it worse.
• Gamma – You feel lost. Things are chaotic and turbulent. This is where you can get trapped and feel like there’s nowhere to go.
• Delta –
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Once you are stretched between two opposite poles (your old way of life and the new approach you want to take), you will encounter obstacles on the path.
If you are an aspiring writer, you may fall into the trap of perfectionism.
You start projects and then quit because they are never good enough.
With this specific obstacle, you would need to reframe
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