If you like quality time, make the experience high-quality. Set aside time for complete absorption, immerse yourself in set-up, enjoy just being there with the book.

A big mistake is resting on sheer willpower, it’s like telling yourself “I have to love someone” and it feels like an obligation. Learning outside school is mainly about desire.

Give yourself an enemies to lovers arc with learning. When you’re falling in love you want to know more about them, the same thing will happen with learning, researching.