added by kev · updated 6mo ago
How to Raise Tiny Humans Without Losing Your Mind
- I think this is one of the key things in parenting, and the difficulty of raising children in a very, very fast-moving culture: that, again, it’s the difficulty of creating a space where children can actually unfold and where they can be truly accompanied in their journey
from John O’Donohue — The Inner Landscape of Beauty by John O'Donohue
We remain a society obsessed with individual achievement. We equate success with elevation: “Climbing the ladder”, “Scaling my Everest”, “Being on top of the world”. Fatherhood is changing you. But if you step back, you’ll see it's changing all of us together. What might happen to a group of dads who realise they could help change each other?
... See moreJacob Pettit added
- I could, however, identify with Knausgaard’s feeling of being rendered soft and harmless, of having to forget that there were such things as potency or masculine dignity. The fact that we were helping our wives take care of our children on the weekend was not the problem: this was a responsibility we had all signed up for, approved of and—at least ... See more
from On the Crisis of Men | The Point Magazine
Alex Dobrenko added
hooooo nelly I disagree with this!! like, what is it about being in a room of kids that makes him feel that he is expected to himself become a child too?