How to Make the Most of Your 20s

There are trends that I definitely participate in, but it’s nice to try to do it in your own way, instead of copy-pasting what you see online. This sounds really obvious, but a good starting place is picking celebrities/models/etc. with a similar body type or coloring as you, and copying their outfits in your own way. Google the person you’re think... See more

Resist commodifying or typing yourself to get attention.

You’re not a girlboss , a clean girl , or such a Pisces , you’re you, and there’s no one else quite like you. Those kinds of labels can be fun, I guess, but ultimately are limiting. It’s best to take an expansive view of the self. You don’t have to type yourself, or fit in with a specific gr

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If an artistic life speaks to you, that’s great, but know that you’re probably not very good at it yet. ( And that’s okay.)

But Catherine, what if I’m a genius? Then be one. But you can also spend your 20s exploring things, trying stuff out, figuring out your talents, and discerning your vocation. You probably aren’t that interesting yet (sorry),

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Creative work is a long game, and you’re probably not going to do your best work until your 30s or 40s.

Our society is addicted to the tales of the 22-year-old pop star, the 19-year-old actress, the 24-year-old novelist. There are like six of these people, and a good deal of them are industry plants with powerful connections. Most people with a sh

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