How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen
by David Brooks
added by Sriya Sridhar and · updated 11h ago
by David Brooks
added by Sriya Sridhar and · updated 11h ago
Character is not measured by a person’s beliefs but by the ability to see the full humanity of others. It is not automatic. It’s a skill acquired slowly. It’s about being able to focus on what’s going on in your own mind and simultaneously focus on what’s going on in another mind. It’s about learning how to minutely observe, absorb and resonate wit
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On the other hand, there are few things as fulfilling as that sense of being seen and understood. I often ask people to tell me about times they’ve felt seen, and with glowing eyes they tell me stories about pivotal moments in their life. They talk about a time when someone perceived some talent in them that they themselves weren’t even able to see
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