
How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be

Real change happens when we let go of the illusion we have been clinging to that holds our conditioned reality in place.
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In the account related above, someone is willing to go into that burning building and rescue the child who will be crushed under the collapsing building. Will a rescue be possible? Is it too late? We
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Life as it actually is often appears to be an annoying, unfair interruption of our pursuit of life. In life as it should be, I get what I want, people do what I want, things are easy, lights are green, traffic flows smoothly, people are polite and helpful, what I want to buy is on sale, things never break, my loved ones are happy and well and succe
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When we can separate behaviors from all the “meanings” that define a person, we can sort them into groups and address each for what it is, like sorting the socks.
Cheri Huber • How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be
One of our monks has a practice that assists him in freeing himself from egocentricity and returning to the present. Instead of allowing conditioning to remind him of what is wrong, he practices remembering all the blessings he has. He simply says “thank you”—over and over, with every breath. Each time his attention moves to something new, each tim
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CHAPTER TEN CENTER: Home Free
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I read philosophy from the Greeks to the present, and I found a lot of interesting ideas and pertinent questions. But it was clear that ultimately they were in the same boat with me: They did not know how things worked, and they did not seem all that happy with what they supposedly did know. I phrase it in that way because it was obvious to me that
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Here’s a summary you can use to continue this process for yourself. 1. Choose an issue you want to work with. 2. Sit down, stay still, and be aware of all that goes on. 3. Notice what belief systems are held in place with this issue. 4. Notice which subpersonalities are involved. 5. Listen to what the voices have to say about the issue and about wh
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If we didn’t project so much of ourselves into material goods, we would need only one style of car, one style of clothing, one house design, and so on. But we need many different options because we are projecting different aspects of ourselves into and onto our surroundings.