
How to Be Alone

The gods of our ancestors were, on the whole, gods of the wild places;
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
You are one of those courageous people who want to dare to live; and to do so believe you have to explore the depths of yourself, undistracted and unprotected by social conventions and norms.
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
You have an inchoate, inarticulate, groping feeling that there is something else, something more, something that may be scary but may also be beautiful.
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
In addition to looking at how you spend your leisure time, it is also interesting to look at your own ‘maintenance’ time. This is partly because household maintenance is something that not only can be, but often is, done alone. If you are trying to find time for solitude, you may already have it if you stop seeing vacuuming as a disagreeable task
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‘You have to practise letting go of the inner chatter that can get in the way of what you want to accomplish,’
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
a well-stocked mind enhances creativity,
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
a mental store of beautiful or useful items offers security, frees one from complete dependence on oneself and appears to aid balance and sanity in solitude.
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
Solitude can happen to anyone: we are all at risk.
Sara Maitland • How to Be Alone
Nothing is more destructive of warm relations than the person who endlessly ‘doesn’t mind’.