Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
“If equal affection cannot be, / Let the more loving one be me,” Arendt’s good friend and great admirer W.H. Auden wrote in his sublime ode to that superhuman triumph of the heart.
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
Reminds me a bit of Lacan (I guess also Schopenhauer and Harry Frankfurt)
It was from Augustine that she borrowed the phrase amor mundi — “love of the world” — which would become a defining feature of her philosophy. Occupied by questions of why we succumb to and normalize evil, Arendt identified as the root of tyranny the act of making other human beings irrelevant. Again and again, she returned to Augustine for the... See more
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
Fearlessness is what love seeks. Love as craving is determined by its goal, and this goal is freedom from fear.
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
The triumph of love is in the courage and integrity with which we inhabit the transcendent transience that binds two people for the time it binds them, before letting go with equal courage and integrity.
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
to have loved is to have known the straitjacket of irrationality that slips over even the most willful mind when the heart takes over with its delicious carelessness.
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
Even if things should last, human life does not. We lose it daily. As we live the years pass through us and they wear us out into nothingness. It seems that only the present is real, for “things past and things to come are not”; but how can the present (which I cannot measure) be real since it has no “space”? Life is always either no more or not... See more
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
The present is not determined by the future as such... but by certain events which we hope for or fear from the future, and which we accordingly crave and pursue, or shun and avoid. Happiness consists in possession, in having and holding our good, and even more in being sure of not losing it. Sorrow consists in having lost our good and in enduring... See more
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
Reminds me a bit of Lacan (I guess also Schopenhauer and Harry Frankfurt)
If presence — the removal of expectancy — is a prerequisite for a true experience of love, then time is the elemental infrastructure of love.
Maria Popova • Hannah Arendt on Love and How to Live with the Fundamental Fear of Loss
Occupied by questions of why we succumb to and normalize evil, Arendt identified as the root of tyranny the act of making other human beings irrelevant. Again and again, she returned to Augustine for the antidote: love.