Dreaded time spent alone is now welcomed as an opportunity to fantasize, objectify girls and masturbate.

What this means is most children who suffer at the hands of sexual predators must learn how to cope alone with enormous shame and guilt. When a child carries the burden of harboring a horrible secret, it is a good bet he will suffer additional emotional and mental consequences along the way.

“Growing up and moving forward in your life, you are not aware of what your brain has done for you,” Dr. Webb continues. “You are not aware of your blocked feelings. You are not aware that you are living your life without full access to a key life ingredient that everyone else has: your emotions.”

Sexual addiction is not about sex. It is the result of a man’s inability to identify and process emotional pain and distress.

What if you could actually know what is driving your unhealthy choices? What if you could get to the root of the problem? What if you could understand yourself and your patterns in a way that brings about real change in your life? What if?

not about sex.

The gradual accumulation of unfinished mental and emotional business can lead to chronic anxiety, fear, confusion, emptiness, and unhappiness.”

The inner child can point out these true feelings and then enable the adult side to handle the situation maturely.”

I estimate nine of 10 men who come into my office for help are also dealing with a low emotional IQ.