
Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well

Show them sympathy, use comforting words, and even share their misery outwardly. But make sure that you do not inwardly grieve with them.”
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
Know what you can and cannot control! That’s the Stoic’s path to a happy life. If you set a high value on happiness, everything else must be valued less.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
We all need to be more conscious of how we spend our time. Most of us know this — we just don’t live it. We squander our time like it’s nothing.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
While many of us desire to become the rulers of our destiny, we can’t embark on that endeavor unless we master our inner world first. Otherwise, we will give up every time we experience a setback.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
That’s how you protect your mood: By not feeling responsible for how others feel. Focus on yourself and be the best person you can be. And if others need your help, you can be there for them.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
What I learned from Stoicism is that time is your most valuable resource.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
Seneca said it best: “So what is good? The knowledge of life. What is bad? Ignorance of life.” To have knowledge of life, pursue wisdom in books, articles, and through conversations with other people who are on the same path.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
we watch TV shows we’re not even interested in just to “kill time.” Why kill something so precious? That’s what should really upset you. Not some insignificant message you read on Twitter from some person you don’t even know.
Darius Foroux • Focus on What Matters: A Collection of Stoic Letters on Living Well
Pick up The Dawn of Everything by David Graeber and David Wengrow, which