
Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live

Here are some signs that an inner urge is probably not a true intuitive message. 1. The thought is accompanied by feelings of fear, anger, or desperation. Every half-credible psychic I’ve encountered, in print or in person, describes true intuitive experiences as emotionally calm, peaceful, or a bit detached. Even when they get bad news, people who
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Here are some ways to explore and enlarge your Square Four experience, so that it goes on as long as possible. 1. Add as Many Worthwhile Experiences as You Can.
Martha Beck • Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
If someone you deeply love wounded you emotionally, you may spend years in futile efforts to convince that person to change, to see how valuable you are, to treat you as you deserve to be treated. When these attempts fail (because they usually do), you’ll feel magnetized toward romantic partners, friends, and sometimes even employers who are simila
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There may also be shame, as you let go of your old status, income, or position in exchange for nothing but inner peace.
Martha Beck • Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
I know from experience that people who set out to find their own North Stars tend to awaken whatever paranormal skill they may have. In general, the more closely my clients follow their physical and emotional “compasses,” the more they begin to sense intuitive guidance. As they draw closer and closer to living in harmony with their essential selves
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As they set out on paths chosen by their social selves, these clients’ essential selves set up barriers, closed down operations, blew up bridges, and generally made it as difficult as possible to proceed down those errant roads.
Martha Beck • Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
Fear tells you that something in your immediate vicinity is threatening your progress toward happiness. To move forward, you must make some move that will cause your fear to dissipate as soon as possible.
Martha Beck • Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
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Martha Beck • Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
The intense and scary grieving process has a remarkable alchemical effect on your psyche. It changes the stuff of your personality in such a way that you’re less likely to fall into unhealthy situations that mirror past catastrophes. I’ve had any number of clients with an uncanny knack for winding up in the job situations and relationships that ech
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