I always prioritize how people feel.20 Is it a pleasure to be with each other? Does the agenda or space allow for aliveness, connection, and joy? Is there a “yes!” at the center of the work? There are so many things that are violent, offensive, unbearable. An embodied “no” is so justified—but I don’t believe it moves us forward.

“Yes!” has a future.

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My work is guided by and lives within three core pillars:

• Erotic Joy — joy as aliveness, a source of creativity, refusal, and collective power.


• Sacred Sensuality — the honoring of the body, pleasure, and ritual as technologies of knowing and portals of spirit.


• Embodied Presence — the practice of showing up in fullness, where beauty, identity, and

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• Claim Erotic Joy: curate joy as ritual. Make a playlist that recharges you. Dance in the living room. Laugh without apology. Adorn yourself as devotion. Guard your delight as a political inheritance.


• Root in Embodied Presence: practice the self-gaze. Photograph yourself for remembrance, not for consumption. Honor your quiet interior life as much

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