Yourself This can be who you are at home or at work, and works great in scenes where you encounter your lover as... someone else. If you're a student in real life, then you can be a student who has a sexual encounter with a school nurse, a stranger, or anyone else you've fantasized about. Stay at home moms can tryst with "the repairman", and

I want our role-play to happen: * In the bedroom * In our imaginations * In public, such as a bar, restaurant, dance club * A different room in the house (specify) * A hotel room * A sex club Ideally, I'd like us to wear: * Uniforms, at least one of us * Regular clothes * Clothing like our roles would wear * Realistic costumes * Nothing! * Sexy

EVERYDAY ROLES AND SCENARIOS Roles taken from daily life are the easiest to pull off because they are familiar, easy to research, and props or costumes are easily improvised. These roles are easy to play without any extra detail other than a few spoken words. Are you wanton, willing, suggestive, resistant, curious, shy or aggressive? Let the roles

hand are: * A vibrator good for internal and external use, with a variable speed. * A fingertip vibrator. * Couples should have a vibrating cock ring, for clitoral stimulation during penis-vagina penetration.

• Doggie style * Anal sex * All tied up * Kinky sex (specify)

GET STARTED Role-play can be spontaneous and simple—such as a dirty talk scenario—or can be a detailed, carefully planned and negotiated event. It's your fantasy, and entirely up to you. For your first time, start simple. See if playing around with verbalizing during sex is even for you; if it's not, then now you know. It doesn't have to involve

When you try out fantasy scenarios, you're essentially playing a sexually explicit version of "make believe." Some couples use role-play occasionally for a little bit of kinky fun. Many others enjoy it as part of their regular sex lives, whether it's one reliably hot scenario, or a variety of roles and predicaments. Let the erotic ideas you already

Turn up the heat: tell the point of view of your character or role, such as "I'm a really angry police officer. I've had a really tough day, and your speeding ticket is the last thing I want to deal with. I want you to make it worth my while." Or you can even use your true feelings at that very moment to make your role play authentic, "I've never

Roles tend to break down into two general categories: If you're in a more active role, you'll want to get or obtain something sexual from your lover, and if in the receptive role, you'll be reacting to your partner's innuendo, sexual dominance or advances. Whatever from your role takes, let erotic desire be your primary motivating factor, and