It builds the architecture of the life we secretly want.

The erotic decision is the one that defies linearity and invites metamorphosis

For what else is autonomy, if not the freedom to choose according to one’s own rhythm, one’s own longing, one’s felt truth?

Sometimes it leads us to joy. Sometimes to heartbreak. Often to both, simultaneously. But it always leads us somewhere real.

they are decisions made in response to a tremor beneath the skin of the day, the silent sense that something inside must be honoured. Even if it disrupts everything else.

It is the decision to let yourself be undone by what draws you in.

Therefore, what does it mean to live erotically in a world designed to suppress the erotic? It means making decisions that align with your aliveness, even if they offend your ego, your upbringing, your pay check. It means walking away from a job that kills your soul. Reading poetry instead of productivity manuals. Saying “yes” to a conversation... See more

the force that binds the soul to the world, that moves us toward beauty, mystery, and becoming.

In that primal reaching, there is already a choice, not a rational one, but a visceral alignment with life, with connection, with being with rather than apart.