The key to energetic invisibility is understanding that availability is a choice, not an obligation. You can choose to become energetically unavailable while remaining physically present and socially appropriate.

The Liberation of Energetic Neutrality

Learning energetic invisibility was one of the most liberating skills I've ever developed. It freed me from the exhausting cycle of absorbing others' chaos while trying to fix problems that weren't mine to solve.

I no longer leave social events feeling drained. I no longer attract people who see me as a free... See more

Here's the uncomfortable truth: Your chronic availability is enabling energy vampires to avoid dealing with their own emotional reality.