Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature
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Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature

Hide behind God talk, deflecting the spotlight from my inner cracks, and become defensive about my failures
pleasures and glory like bandages
I wanted her to be the mom I’d never had—to not “abandon” me emotionally, to be there for the “wounded boy” inside her husband who was carrying out this great responsibility for God and our family.
Is it any wonder that most people live off other people’s spirituality rather than taking the time to develop their own direct experience of God?
The reality, however, is that every person has an unconscious Rule for developing his or her spiritual life.
BILL OF RIGHTS Respect means I give myself and others the right to: Space and privacy (e.g., knocking on doors before entering, not opening one another’s mail, respecting each other’s needs for quiet and space); Be different (e.g., allowing preferences for food, movies, volume of music, and how we spend our time); Disagree (e.g., making room for
... See moreThree powerful temptations, however, threaten us. Each, in its own way, screams: “God’s love for you will never be enough! You are not lovable. You are not good enough.”
Contemplative spirituality, on the other hand, is concerned with slowing down to be with God, focusing on such practices as:2 awakening and surrendering to God’s love in any and every situation; positioning ourselves to hear God and remember his presence in all we do; communing with God, allowing him to fully indwell the depth of our being;
... See moreThe Wall compels us into the Journey Inward.